Okay, so I’ve been working on serious answers to you reader questions, but since I’m on vacation in Australia we’ll be resuming our Q & A when I return. This week we feature a blog by my wife Regina, who shares her experiences with our simian cousins. Enjoy!
I have a thing for monkeys. It’s no secret. When James and I would discuss having children in our younger days, I would plead the case for a pet monkey rather than a human baby. I did some research and found that in most places that’s not legal, and even where it is legal to have a monkey for a pet, it’s ill-advised.
On my first trip to Thailand I got close enough to a monkey for it steal my camera case. It seems the string that hangs off it is about as exciting to a monkey as it is to a kitten. I got some pictures, but I could also hear the echo of what the American Travel Doctor who I had seen before I left the states told me about not petting or even getting close to ANY animals abroad; no cats, no puppies, and by all means no monkeys. He told me that if I got bit I would have to be airlifted to the nearest hospital for a rabies shot. That doctor made it hard for me to get the camera case back when the monkey swiped it, but luckily the owner of that monkey helped me retrieve it without injury. During my latest trip to Southern Thailand I was excited to read that monkey troops lived on the cliffs that surrounded the beaches where we would be staying in Railay Beach. Of course, whenever I’ve been somewhere that’s had wild monkeys, they seem to lose the majestic aura of mystery when I see them scavenging through garbage cans, which is what the troop on Railay was doing when I happened upon them. I was, however, extremely pleased to meet Harry the Monkey in Railay. A baby Macaque, he was rescued by the locals when the mother monkey was attacked and killed by another Macaque. So now Harry lives with the humans, adopted by the local Thai on the island. I found Harry hanging out with his folks (different locals) in all sorts of places during my five days there. In the morning I might see Harry walking to the beach with one of his Papas down the foot path while I was on my way to get coffee and by day Harry was usually leashed to a tree near the tourist beach, in the evenings he could be found roaming free at a Rasta bar where the climbers hang out. In one of the first direct encounters with Harry, at the Rasta bar, he took off James’ glasses and was very ornery, so while I wanted to play and pet on the one hand, Harry wasn’t likely going to be calm and cuddly. But, as is my style, I picked up a banana from the free breakfast at the hotel each morning and carried in my bag hoping to run into Harry. One afternoon I found Harry sitting on a blanket eating lunch with the hawkers (sellers of local wares, food, beverages, etc) on the beach. He had rice on his hands and feet (since he eats with both right? ). Even then, by the end of the week Harry only took my banana after I gave it to one of the locals to peel and give to him. This day did get my courage up to put out my hand to Harry when he was by himself hanging out in the shade of his tree. Consciously pushing back the fear that the travel doctor had put in my head originally about petting foreign animals and rabies shots, I meekly put out my hand, palm down, to Harry and was surprised when he looked into my eyes and carefully climbed on to the back on my hand. He stayed very still and looked at me, as if to make sure I wasn’t going to move suddenly. As I hadn’t expected him to climb up, my hand was palm down and I didn’t want to make any sudden movements, though it was challenging to hold his weight fully in the position. I’m not sure how long we stood together like that before I noticed a long appendage about the size of a pencil between my ring and middle finger. Sure enough Harry had an erection and seems to be getting himself off between my digits. Because he was also holding my hand with all four of his, I had no way of easily removing him. It was such a delicate matter, trying to disconnect myself from Harry without destroying either his dignity or mine, and I was still holding my camera in the other hand since, before that moment, I was still trying to document.
As I was struggling to get Harry to let go of my hand, one of the hawkers who sells soda and beer on the beach, a hard nosed lady-boy that we had gotten to know over the course of our stay, came over under the tree where Harry and I stood. “He really likes you,” she said. And it was true Harry the monkey and I had a moment together, just not in a way I was ready for. Merry Monkey & Happy Christmas ! May you find your more evolved monkey self in the New Year. love, Reg.